Anger Management – Better Communication

Better Communication

Angry people tend to jump to conclusions, however far-fetched. If you are in a heated discussion, slow down. Listen carefully to what the other person is saying. And take your time before answering. Instead of saying the first thing that comes into your head, think carefully about what you want to say.

Think about what’s behind your anger. Say you value your freedom, but your significant other wants more closeness. If he or she starts complaining, don’t retaliate by painting you partner as a jailer.

It’s natural to get defensive when you’re criticized, but don’t fight back. Instead, listen to what’s beneath the words. Perhaps the real message is that your partner feels neglected and unloved. It may take patient questioning, but don’t let anger spin things out of control.

Credit: American Psychological Association

Read more about Anger Management:

  1. Anger Management – Relaxation
  2. Anger management – Cognitive Restructuring
  3. Anger Management – Problem Solving
  4. Anger Management – Better Communication
  5. Anger Management – Humor
  6. Anger Management – Environmental Change
  7. Anger – How a Psychologist Can Help

 

See more: http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/controlling-anger.aspx

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